Hi, itneverfails. Sorry you find yourself in this situation, but I feel you've come to the right place. I don't think people are refusing to reply because your situation is "so messed up". Y'all are common law married, but nevertheless a family, with the same sort of problems the civilly married couples here have. I read all your posts this evening-H is watching football-and I honestly think you are handling things admirably. You have a plan in place, you have your H going to counseling, etc. You've started going to church, which will give you spiritual strength for the rough road ahead. You have a creative outlet in the painting. I only happened upon your thread this evening, and I am sure others are sure to follow. Keep posting, we are here.
