Maybe I recognize myself in some things you pointed out. You want a job done right, and if it's not....you say something about it. I am M to a person very different from me. He is very....shall I say, laid back? So, I can come across as complaining; always finding fault with something; nobody can please me; things are never good enough; etc. Of course, I don't see myself like that, but it must be tough on those who have to live with me.
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What would you suggest I do about the fact that she is on Skype most evenings?
Well honestly, I think you would be better off by not watching her activity. The reason being, that you need to get stronger than you are right now. In order to focus more on GAL and reaching personal goal, you need to be able to detach from the emotional prison this situation seems to have you. It's kind of like having a sore. It won't heal if you're constantly picking at it. But, when all is said and done, you will do what you want. All we can do is make suggestions.
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Still feeling negative, my lack of patience is making me fret about losing her altogether. I suppose that is why I am itching to contact her. There is some post for her which I was thinking of letting her know about,
Please don't find excuses to contact her. Please trust our advice on this. I know women! If you stop showing interest in her and start getting a life without her......she will pursue you. If you work this right, she could be home again. But if you get in a hurry.....it will be gone forever. So let that give you more patient, okay?
So, tell me how you plan to fill your weekend?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
