Well, she was late coming over, so I was actually here when she got here. I was upbeat, smiling and happy to see her. I didn't ask any questions about what she's been up to other than just a general "how ya been doing" type stuff. I shared some of my GAL activities and she was surprised. Anyway, she took one of our dogs and went to a park. She sent me a few pictures and then said thanks for letting her take the dog. I said you're welcome and that she could take either or both of them anytime she wanted. Then she sent me these two texts right in a row:
"ok thank you. cuz this is really very hard..."
"thanks, she (our dog) has been very comforting to me..."
I asked if everything was ok and told her that i understood if i wasn't the person she wanted to talk to if something was wrong but I was here to listen if needed.
I haven't heard back yet but that's very interesting. Of course, it could be that she is moving to Mississippi with the other guy or something like that. I don't know if she's going to talk about it with me or not but I've made myself available to listen. When she comes back I plan to ask again (unless she's said she doesn't want to talk about it or something) if everything is ok and if she says yes or she doesn't want to talk about it, then just let it go at that and be my happy old self. If she wants to talk, I'm going to listen and not try and fix it. Just be sensitive and caring.
Lol, it helped to type out my game plan even if no one responds before she comes back just so I can assure myself of what I'm going to do. Thanks for everything guys and I'll let you know how it goes.
