Welcome Gal- You are in a similar situation to myself and many people on this site. I'm still a rookie as far as DB'ing and this forum is concerned but one thing that I have read over and over on here that I think relates to you is "don't believe anything they say and half of what they do". She sounds like she is speaking from fear and anger so try not to take it too personally as it is most likely not coming from her true authentic self/feelings.
Good Luck and i will be checking in and if I have anything to share that I think might help will do so.
