Cat, the LRT is exactly where I'm at. Actually, ambivalence is more like it. Need to really work my tail off, get the money I require to qualify for the house I want to purchase, get this shack sold. Working is my new love now. I will throw myself into my work and just move in the direction that I need to be happy. To be honest, I'm looking forward to the peace of being alone again. No more craziness. (I'm even going to suggest that they SHOULD live together. They need to make a go and make it work. *grin*)
He won't do anything until she puts him between a rock and a hard place. I knew this the minute it became evident they were in contact. She has to burn him, he has to get her out of his system. If/when that happens, who can say.
As for the lack of spine and respect, yeah I'm aware of what all it means. I'm working hard at hardening my heart. That's taking time. A lot less time than I expected, if I'm being honest, but it's still hard to let go. I'm already trying to figure out a way where he can buy me out. We'll see. I can be gone in 4 weeks if he offers it.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
