Thanks everyone. I agree that I did get sucked in and that she is nowhere near going to counseling. I also agree with kml in certain areas.

Now I may have a bigger problem:

I have reason to believe that she may have seen my posts on this site.

What do I do now?

Tad


Currently:
M 57 XW 58
Sons 39,34,32,30

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13