This isn't Vegas. There are no "odds". You control only what is in your hands. YOu have to face the possibility that there is a guy in the picture. That will help you to deal things with a level head and not get overly emotional when the crap hits the fan.
Control the things you can control. Be the one to divide up the bills. Stop letting her run the show. She's bulldozing over you right now.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
