Your going to make him mad regardless, and you have to not worry about that. This is the reality of D. He can't expect to walk away from his family and not share any of the responsibility.
Don't feel guilty. You are not doing this out of spite, you are doing what is best for your kids. That is what a good, responsible parent does.
I'm here for ya girl.....
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