Wife wants a divorce,but I do not.

[HHIF]

Yes I do think she blames me and yes I did screw up by being jealous and controlling and she kept everything inside instead of saying something until she was walking out the door.

We do have separate accounts now,money issues are about to much out going and not enough incoming not about me being controlling with money.

She has stopped wearing her wedding ring this week and that bothers me because even though she doesn't treat me like a husband at least the ring said to other men that she wasn't available,but I haven't said anything about it and won't.