Somewhere between filing and D

[jon2911]

So here's an update, and call for advice:

Nothing from W for a while. I've been sending her financial numbers her L asked for.

Last week I received a notice from her L that the "final hearing" is scheduled for December 15th. First thing I've received from her L.

I called W and the notice was news to her, she hadn't received it yet. I asked if she's sent anything else for me, she said no. She's still working on getting tax paperwork together. I told her I'm still working on my end.

She sounded soft, no edge to her voice at all. I pressed her a little bit, asking if her L needs anything more from me to settle.

She said "my L's been difficult to deal with". She also hadn't really looked at the financial numbers I've sent.

I told her I'd check with mine to see what this means.

She then said "so...", and I could tell she wanted to say more, but then cut herself off and said "just check with yours and let me know".

My guess is that she's been feeling terrible with her migraines, and that doesn't necessarily mean second thoughts, but she's definitely not pushing this through. Maybe the going dark is working? What should my strategy be from here?

I caught up with my L today, and he said it sounds like December 15th she'll need to appear before the judge, and I can with a L or not. I'd need to get a L in her county though. I need to ask W what she wants from the D, and if her L will draw it up. I'm supposed to let him know what she says.