Your W's stomach ache may or may not have played a part in her demeanor during MC. If your sessions with the MC are turning out to be more of the same, it may warrant seeing another MC. However, hopefully you have all worked together to establish some goals.
You've probably seen it here before, but try to avoid any mind reading. There's no telling what is influencing your W's mood. Mind reading will just drive you crazy. Besides, you can only control yourself.
It may be the combination of your faults AND her faults drove your W to the PA. It doesn't justify it, though.
Originally Posted By: jake999
My commitment to change is going to benefit me and my children regardless of what my W does, so I need to continue on this path.
This is a great attitude. This also tells me you are committed to making the right changes. Because of that, the changes are more likely to last.
