Punchy, It's been awhile, glad to hear your taking care of your self and family. I too resist coming back to this site for the same reasons you stated. I will always remember and appreciate the great advise and support I received here.
I thought about posting a 1 year update back in July,I should just copy/paste yours. I could not have written it any better.
Earlier,this year when I replyed to your post with "We both know this can't go on forever", Gnosis responded "oh, yes it can" Well, like you(room mates), I'm at 16 months and counting, and think about Gnosis's comment alot. I just hope and pray they make up their minds already.
My wife, like yours is still at home, this I believe still gives us a chance.
