IB, I'm glad the divorce care class was helpful. Just think...you've graduated and now can move on to something else, if you so desire. I'm glad to read that you are planning to finish your doctorate. Good for you!
The reason that you can manage million dollar projects at work is because your focus is on them and they are not of a personal nature. Your own checkbook is personal and it reminds you of what you've been through. It will get easier in time.
Continue moving forward....you are doing great!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
