Question : If she does see the L next week and files - how should I react when she tells me? Was thinking along the lines of "Thanks for giving me a heads up. I recognize that this is a path you feel you need to go down and whilst I disagree with your decision I respect that you have every right to make the choices you want to make".
She knows how you feel about the D. Don't beat her over the head with it.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS