What do I do next? Part 2

[luvhurts49]

Talked to my oldest son today and he mentioned something that was kinda interesting. He is of the mindset that he wants to live with me. He told my W that he doesn't want to live with her because he is always bored there and he wants to be in his own room, in his own bed and be able to play with his friends (that live near my house). My W's response (according to my son), at your dad's, you sleep in a cheap $100 bed and the bed I bought for you here cost at least twice that much. OMG, now where putting a price tag on where my W thinks our son should be.

One other thing my W said was that she is tired of doing "this" every 5 years. I asked my son what she meant by "this" and his response was that I yell too much and that we argue too much.

Let's see here, the only time I yell is when I'm trying to be heard--for example, my W won't stop talking and I want to get a word in or everyone is making so much noise and I raise my voice to tell everyone to be quite. I don't necessarily consider that yelling, but that's my opinion.

Now, we have always bickered a little bit, but it wasn't until this last year that we started to argue so much. My W admitted to me that over the past year or so, she would start an argument on purpose just to upset me, but she wasn't really sure why she would do that.

So I don't understand how she can complain about something that she herself started. I know I can't believe anything she says, but she said it to our son, not to me.