Quote: it just feels wrong not to call her and wait for her every time.
It's not wrong to wait.
Let me say that differently. I know what you mean, but I want you to understand what I mean. Don't put yourself in a "holding" position, but instead, fill your daily life so that you don't feel that you're "waiting" for her to contact first. When you catch yourself watching the phone or email, get busy with something else.
I came here to the DB board every single night! When I felt temptation I came here and that helped me get through one more day.
If you don't have anything to report, then read other stories here and reach out to other posters.
BTW, I'm interested in the goals you've set. Will you share them with us?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
