it just feels wrong not to call her and wait for her every time.
It's not wrong to wait. That was a pattern that needs to be set aside now. Remember that this is a DB skill you are learning.
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it bothers me that she is content with the status quo
I wouldn't say she's content. But I think I warned you about testing. She may be waiting to see if you make the first move to contact. If you do.....then she knows she continues to have that "hold" over you. It will set you back.
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Hope to get some reassurance that this will all work out
Another common mistake the LBH makes is looking for reassurances from the WAW. She will not give that b/c she's trying to convince you it's over.
Come here to be reassured that you are doing the right work. She will not give you words of hope.
