Hi and sorry you are here I have verbally abused my W many times and the last time she was afraid. I have not hit her but r the verbal abuse was just as bad. I never wanted to hurt her but I learned from my dad as to how to deal with a conflict. I promised to not behave like him he would break doors window and get physical. I have not gotten to that point and hope that this experience will never get me there. I am ashamed about my behavior even though some of my complaints may have been legitimate. I had choices too. Could have left could have done many things differently but instead I chose to get pissed. If you have children and are in danger you must leave him ASAP. His abusive behavior is not your fault. Can he change? Maybe but only if he wants too. Does he drink or do drugs? That makes a difference. Hang in there we are here to help
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
