Good news! That will be a challenge for you however -- you'll be looking for signs that everything will be ok, you'll be looking for even slight affection, you'll be doing a lot of work to prepare the meal and will feel like you are owed some gratitude.

You will be tempted to slip in little comments like "I wish you could be here for dinner every night" if you feel things are going well.

Resist the urge! You've started a pursuit here -- be nice, be happy, be supportive, but don't be needy and don't have expectations. Think through what you're going to do if he gets mean or disrespectful. Remember you want to build him up, but you also want to give him the chance to pursue, so don't be too easy to get. Create some mystery if you can.

Most importantly, have fun and feel good about yourself!

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015