It's waaaay too soon. I hasn't even been 2 weeks yet. Enjoy the fact that you have a couple hugs, and normal conversations.
I'd also kinda back off of telling her what you've learned about yourself...it's 10X more important to show her. Telling her isn't going to change anything without action.
However, if she is ready to start moving in some direction. I would follow her lead. You need take it slow for both of your sakes and for the Ms sake.
Give her the time and the space.
For me, I waited until my W wanted to go to MC and not before. I didn't really push her on that (I did other minor dumb things) but with that I was pretty consistent on.
It took about 5 weeks for her to bring it up. And that is very quick for DBing.
good luck.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
