Another crisis.....but H opening up now

[angel61]

I definitely will be saying ILY's and will be demonstrating my love for my H, once I feel that it will no longer drive him away.

In the past, I demanded he show me affection. When he did not give it to me, I withdrew. I thought of it as a give and take.

That was a mistake that drove a deep wedge into our M. I just want to give now, and not base it upon what I get in return.

I also will always affirm him, let him lead, and let him grow.

I now know my changes and efforts were seen and appreciated, and it makes me feel great.

In spite of it all, I am starting to agree with what many of you feel: that what happened was all for the best.... that I would never have realized all of this had this not happened.

Its true, God really has a plan.