Unfortunately, with an ongoing D looming over our heads, there is going to be friction between us and I'm sure it will lead to "discussions" at some point.

You see, when I got served my D papers, I was shocked to read some of the statements in there because it was the direct opposite from what my W has been telling me. Now I didn't say anything or contact her because I was upset and didn't want to say anything I would regret. However, she did call me and wondered how my day went knowing full well that I got served at my job. Although I was upset, I simply asked "how do think it went".

I understand that lawyers are initially going to shoot for the moon and once the smoke clears, they will take aim a little closer to reality. Once my papers are signed and filed (today), I'm sure she isn't going to be very happy with some of the statements in the response.

Now I don't really care how she reacts to the paperwork because I already know she's gonna be ticked, but what the heck am I supposed to do about it? So, paving the road is gonna be a little bumpy unfortunately.

So on top of the D paperwork and what her reaction is gonna be, now I also have to sit on my hands and hopefully wait for OM to let my W go just so I can wait some more to pave the road and hopefully have some chance with her again. All the while I make myself the best that I can be. Oh, and let's not forget the kids, too.

If I take the battery out of my clock, will that make time slow down? Today is gonna be one of those days.


Me36, W38
S12, S3
T20, M4
Bomb dropped 8/18/11
Moved out 8/18/11
Filed for D 10/20/11
OM Confirmed 11/5/11