What do I do next? Part 2

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That's why you need to "pave the road back" by not making her feel guilty, not arguing with her, not being depressed around her etc. You want her to feel (when the time comes) that the reset button has been pushed and she can come back to you without first having to fill in the giant hole that she dug. Part of this is being "good with yourself" and appearing to not care if she comes back or not. If she does, great, and if not, you're OK with that too.

This is so key! What Accuray says is spot on!