I would try to resist the temptation to call or reach out. When you are feeling that urge, wait a day, then one more. Sometimes just thinking about your S sends enough of a signal that they reach out out of the blue. Since your H is out of state (I think that's right) it takes a little time for that subliminal signal to reach the target.
Hold off as long as you can.
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife