W is angrier after my 180's - time + consistency

[BklynMom]

So strange. But I think the space will help me get her head together.

My H did something similar. We were in a counseling session - which he called divorce counseling b/c it was supposed to help us get a divorced smoothly. He spent the entire session telling me he needed to move out he couldnt take being in our house for one more second.

When we got home I told him to leave. Just do it now lets get it over with. He now refers to this day as the day I kicked him out. huh??

You are doing great. I think going dim and not being in your house will be a jarring awaking for your W. Keep it up