What do I do next? Part 2

[luvhurts49]

I know I can't make my W come back and I can't make her leave OM. I also know that anything that I change in myself, I can't make her see it--she has to want to see it. So I guess what I was trying to say was that I need to become the best that I can be for myself and my kids and hopefully my W with see it too.

TM, I'd rather have you be harsh than to sugarcoat things. Sometimes you need to be direct and not nice to get your point across.

In the back of my mind, I still keep hoping that OM gets tired of my W and let's her go. I read somewhere that people coming out of or are S have like a 10% chance of finding a solid, long-term R on the first try (this includes A). God I hate stats.