Everwhere is walking distance if you have the time

[mishka422]

I was just about to say the same thing OT.

Through all this pain it finally dawned on me (with lots of beating over the head from others here and C) that each person is responsible for their own happiness and it should come first. When you are happy yourself, with yourself, then you become a better partner and are better at bringing happiness into someone else's life. You can not make someone else happy, you can only add to their own.