Sorry, didn't answer your question from before, my bad,

"Does anyone think this is strange at 25 and 27 years old w/ a 4 yer old marriage and 1 yr old child"

Marital difficulties are par for the course whether you are in your 20's or upwards to your 80's even (or more even, but long before that you may have a few things sorted out.)

I haven't posted much in the last seven years. I've been a lurker. Just lookin' to put back all the good help I've gotten...