I'm going to do my best to remain calm, confident, and with a certain degree of detachment. This evening isn't about defending or debating the relationship, it's about spending time together.
My WAW's history is to dropped everyone/everything that disappoints her. I will not get into her "checklist" view of life.
To echo some of the sentiments shared on Val's posts, I'm not going to bring additional significance and expectations to the evening. It'll be a challenge, since it's difficult for me not to get emotional. However, I'll meditate before hand...be at peace.
_______________________ M: 47; W: 39 M: 4.5 yrs; T: 18 years No children Separated: 01/19/11 Wife Served Papers: 02/1/11 Wife moved: 03/05/11 Responded: 04/14/11
