What do I do next? Part 2

[luvhurts49]

No, you're right. I don't want to drive them closer. Telling someone that they can't have something or that they can't do something and they'll just do it anyway--yeah, I get it, especially when she's acting the way she is.

I would like to say something to the OM along the lines of, a decent person doesn't pursue a married woman no matter what. I don't care if the married woman show interest, you just don't mess with a married woman. I know I shouldn't and I probably won't, but I really want to.

So anyway, knowing that this A started as and EA and has progressed to a PA, does it make it that much harder for it to end since both the emotion and sex is there or does it even matter?