Also, you're not an a$$hole. Your wife cheated on you and left you and took the kids with her. Your response is to forgive her, work on yourself, be a great parent, and try to make things right. That's not what an a$$hole would do, that makes you a good man.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015