What do I do next? Part 2

[luvhurts49]

So how can I try and stop this A from going any further than it already has? I know I can't change anything about my W, but just sitting on my hands while this A continues is so very hard to do.

I am going to confront my W about A and the OM, but what do I do about the OM? Do I confront him as well? A lot of bad things enter my mind in regards to the OM, but I also know I can't do anything because of my kids. It's just so frustrating!!!