Sandi is right on the money. You have to create the desire for you. It's that old saying about wanting what you can't have. She craves your attention, and you keep giving it to her. The problem is that when she finds someone else, she won't be texting you any more.
When she texts asking what's up? Wait several hours. Then call back and say that you were busy. No details. Just matter of fact. You can even try calling her at a time that you know that she's not going to be around and leave a message. "hey sorry I missed your call, I was just heading out for dinner. talk to you later."
Boom done.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.