Finally confronted H on affair...Now what????

[imthemom]

Keep Going,
Just wanted to give you some support, your sitch has a little similarity to mine and I was reading your post really feeling for you. The kids are so younge, that makes me sad for all of you.
I just started a new thread and am not sure how to attach them so maybe you can find them and get my story.
I did not find out about OW until well after my H asked for D..and I was shocked, had no idea and have been devistated since.
until I caught him I had taken the approach of telling H that I did not want this divorce and if he did he would have to file and pay for it and I would not help him or support him in that matter. I said it calmly and with kindness. He did not know how to react and never did fill out the papers or file them. I filed papers the day after I caught him in our bed. I will say that through talking to people on this board I have come to regret that since I still do not want a divorce. I didnt have a choice considering my financial sitch but I now have a deadline of 6 months to turn this around and its on the fast track...
which makes me feel out of control...which in learning of myself, I DONT LIKE!!
Its hard to DB in the middle of a divorce but I am trying, it kinda feels like your living in the twilight zone, but Im a firm believer that you can adapt to anything if you have to.
stay strong for your kids and ill keep following your story.
my thoughts are with you