Hi keep going so sorry you are dealing with this also. I'm going to my 1st court date next Wednesday. I was told to let my W go and let her have what she wants. To let her go through with it ( even tho I pushed her to do it after I had an outburst). We haven't even discussed the court date. I act as if nothing is going on. Not sure if is the right thing to do or not. I already asked my W to reconsider when I was served so she knows where I stand. I think you should prepare yourself for either outcome. If he files you will have no control and can't stop it. My advice is to listen to what he says about it and validate. we are told to let them do all of the leg work. I can't tell you what to do regarding the C or separation. Hang in there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
