What do I do next? Part 2

[luvhurts49]

The IC kept asking what it was that I was hoping to get out of confronting my W and I told the IC that it was to just let my W know that I know about the OM and that I am willing to work on things, and to leave that opening there for her if she decides that she wants to make things work. After I explained it, I think she understood why I have to do it.

WRT the kids, I'm not going to even get into her or me restricting time with the kids--I'm not going to stoop to that level. I love my kids and unless she does something completely insane, I'll just ignore her. I'm just tired of being the "bad guy". I didn't decide to have an A, I didn't leave my M, I didn't decide to do this to my kids. I'm not saying that I couldn't have done things better, but I'm not the bad guy here and she certainly isn't righteous (but should be guilty).

$150 is a lot to me right now, even if it is for a good reason. I'd rather use that $ to feed my kids and heat my house. It's not a matter of wanting to do something, it's a matter of need. It's too bad they don't take insurance, my W insurance is really good, LOL.