Like you, I have been in the process of dividing up assets,stocks, savings, property, etc. So far, she has been very content to let me take the lead, no pressure, she still trust me to do what is right, which is a comfort.
If you have joined any support groups in your area, may I advise that you start trying to meet some of the people outside of the group meetings? It has done me a world of good to be around people who have gone, or are going through the same experience.
If you have not joined a group, perhaps you might try, it was hard for me, because I am not a social creature, but it has helped tremendously. Gunny
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O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!