Ok... and the changing places thing every week? What the heck is that about? No offense man, but your W is screwy... that's just plain weird. Personally I wouldn't do it. The kids needs stability and definition. They will need to know you each have a "home" to go to. I just wouldn't go there.

I agree. I think she may simply be trying to make it easier for me (she does have a conscience, it's a little warped at the moment, but it's there). However, part of me wonders how convenient would it then be for her to hook up in the privacy of an apartment if that was her motive.

I know I have to stop this line of thinking!

Anyway, with me moving out, I will be able to differentiate myself, set appropriate boundaries, etc. She achieved her primary goal. Now I get to work on mine!


Me51 W53 S17 S14
M22 T25
Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife