I would probably agree that a DB coach could help, but it comes down to cost--I simply can't afford it. Heck, the only reason I can even go to a IC is because my W insurance covers 100% for the first 20 visits, then 90% for the next 10.

As far as my W accusing me, I simply responded (via text--that all we do) by saying that I didn't know where he picked that up from, but it wasn't from me or anybody around me. I have never said a bad thing about my W to anyone, ever. Why would I want her back so badly if I thought badly of her?

Since we are currently splitting time with our kids 50/50, if she decides to limit my access to them, what are my options? How can I prevent her from doing that since we are still M?


Me36, W38
S12, S3
T20, M4
Bomb dropped 8/18/11
Moved out 8/18/11
Filed for D 10/20/11
OM Confirmed 11/5/11