Hey LA,

This is going to frustrate you, but I don't think there is a good or bad.

It's whatever you make it to be. So you can make it a positive experience - it's up to you. Even if you feel like you're being treated disingenuously, it doesn't mean you need to react to that.

Of course, the challenge is our dispositions may lend ourselves to be more likely to make it one thing than another. But there is no absolute right or wrong answer to any of it.


M: 32
W: 29
T: 9 Years
M: 4 Years
I hit rock bottom: 2/11
PA admitted: 4/11
WAW: 5/11
D filed: 6/11
now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.