W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore.

[Snowman]

Well I told my wife how I really feel and how everyone else feels about her decision and actions. I explained all the pain and suffering that she has caused everyone and how she has acted like nothing has even happened. I also explained how she ripped my heart out and crushed it. Everyone has been saying how self centered and selfish she has been on both sides of her family which I let her know. I told her it [censored] that all of us have to pay for her decision. I let her know that it is her fault because she made the decision and everyone thinks that.

She said thank you for turning everyone against me. That only makes me not want to work things out. It just goes to show you don't get how I feel or think I should feel the way I do. There is a reason for my feelings and this just shows you will never get me or how I feel about things. I do get what I am doing. I am actually doing something for me because its what I want and not what everyone or the church thinks i should do.

I said: I'm confused. Your family reached out to me. I didn't have to say anything to them, they shared their opinions with me. My family is the one that said you are not bipolar just so you know. I wanted to work things out but you showed no sign of wanting to. The church has nothing to so with this. People told me what they thought not the other way around. I loved you with all my heart but you rejected that. I have not pushed the church on you nor my family.

Wow, my W thinks she could just do whatever she wants and no one would notice or think poorly of her. She is delusional. Everyone involved with this situation formed their own opinions because they are adults and can do so. My W can't even explain how she feels and what beef she has against the church we belong to. She needs to grow up and say what she wants. If that is things that go against our church beliefs then tell me or if there is a true reason for her feelings then tell me. He actions so far have not shown she cares about anything or anyone.

I'm not going to sit in limbo while she does whatever she wants and eats her cake. She has killed all my trust and many others. If she wants a different lifestyle then she needs to explain what that is. She has run from her problems since 18 and she will continue to do so. I'm not dealing with this anymore nor can she just show up whenever she wants at the house like it is a storage unit or something. Many my W has lost touch with reality, seriously. She applies for school right in the middle of our supposed divorce and asks for W2's for scholarship things and I think really are we going to be married next year because I don't get it. She is crazy.