I too read that book and found it to be the story of my life. Almost every aspect of that book was true for me. It has helped me start to really think about being a much more assertive and genuine man in whatever R comes next for me.

Strangely, it seems that the nice guy is becoming a much more prevalent person these days. Where have all the "men" gone?


Us: mid-20s
T: 5.5 yrs
M: 2 yrs
S + OM: 6/21/11
Legally S'd: 9/9/11

In this life, you have a limited amount of mental currency. You get what you pay for, so spend it wisely.

So it goes. --Kurt Vonnegut