You gotta love knocking him on his heels with the new carpet, paint and the dog!
Originally Posted By: ~乃G才
I told him I didn't want him going into the apt anymore without prior arrangements.
I think this is a VERY appropriate boundary. He doesn't live there anymore. It's not his apartment, it's yours.
I can't think of a good answer on why the papers weren't there.
Originally Posted By: ~乃G才
I told her no, I don't because I am so far removed from the woman I was almost a year ago that I don't even considerate myself as her anymore. At least that is a positive, right?
Yes! ^^^ This is a HUGE positive. If you hadn't gone through all this junk, you would've never have become this woman you are today.