Uncharted Waters; Need a Paddle

[MrBond]

If you want to protect your finances, then start doing that now. Stop worrying about what kind of messages you're trying to send. You're not screwing her over so stop thinking that you are. She made a decision and all you're doing is watching out for yourself like she's doing.

She might get pissed, but who cares? She's not there right? She doesn't want contact with you right? Well start watching out for numero uno.

Oh she'll get upset, throw a tantrum, call you names, etc. It's so script that it's actually funny. Don't fall for it. KNowing what she's going to do is going to give you a leg up. Just tell her that you didn't make the decision, she did and all you're doing is protecting yourself.