October 20, received a letter from W’s solicitors letter, nothing about D, kids or finances, just a story
and these are some of the inclusions word for word…….
“We understand from our client that your client received a copy of our letter to you on his birthday and that he was particually annoyed about this and sent our client some very nasty text messages. This was on Tuesday afternoon when our client was in accident and emergency with her mother who had been involved in a serious car accident. Because our client was in the hospital her phone had to be switched off but nonetheless your client constantly bombarded her with text messages saying such things as “he was going to take everything from her, including the children” etc. All of this was very distressing for our client who was in a highly vulnerable state because she was worried about her mother. Your client was aware of this but nonetheless continued to send nasty text messages to our client.
WTF………
Next bit was about the the incident when she just walked into the house and verbally attacked me, and stated… Our client opened the door and entered the property. She found you client in the kitchen and asked him why he didn’t let her in, his response was that things are going to start to get messy.
Then its gets even more ??????
We understand that in the early hours of Sunday morning, 16 October 2011, your client was admitted to hospital with chest pains. Our client was caring for the children at this time but received a text message from your client along the lines of “if she wants to see him he is in hospital which is where she put him”
Then the icing on the cake !!!!!
The emotional pressure that your client is piling on our client is wholly inappropriate and our client feels there is a need for your client to consider obtaining professional help for his condition as clearly he does not see himself as having any blame as a result of the breakdown of the parties marriage
I just couldn’t believe what I was reading, my first reaction was to laugh, then to say WTF.
My mum called me and I was laughing, Mum asked why and I explained and said if I didn’t laugh at it what else could I do.
I shared it with a couple of friends who were also of the same opinion.
D14 came round to pick something up (kids were at mums for the 4 days) asked what the letter I was reading was, and showed her the last two paragraphs, D14 said, dad your not the crazy one, mum is. Then asked to check my messages from 16 Oct, and said, but dad you didn’t even send a message on 16th, to which I just replied I know.
Oh, the last bits of the letter were W raising issues over my care of the kids and she has concerns that S12 doesn’t wash every day, and D14 goes out to late (this was 8pm!!)
OK, i'll let that nugget sink in..........please have a look at the text I sent on P1, and my log of when I was admitted to hospital (hint, the kids were with me at the time LOL)
Couldn't make this kind of stuff up could you
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
