Jake, welcome to the message board. Sorry you're here, but glad you found us.
It looks like you're getting great advice.
I think it's a good sign at least your W is willing to go to MC.
Originally Posted By: lostinscared
So, those seemingly "small issues" that you cannot believe led to the marital issues, you better stand up and pay attention FAST
I think this is great advice! These issues may seem small to you and possibly other people, but they're HUGE to your W. I am guilty of this myself, and it's a major contributor in getting me to where I am right now.
Like LIS said, concentrate on what you can control, and that's YOU.