Started to have irregular heart rate about midnight, took some asprin as I know it thins the blood, but still not better, so called my brother who took me up the hospital where the admitted me. The kids where at home and I arranged for them to go to brothers, but as it was the early hours they wanted to stay in bed.
I left a few fb messages to friends to check in on the kids.
W called D14 as she usually does, this was at about 11am, and asked the usual questions, what is dad up to, how is he (she always asks!) so D14 told her, and that friends had been calling the to check in. Now IMHO a “normal” parent would say, ohh that’s nice of them etc, but not W, it was, well they didn’t F**ing what to help before……..
I didn’t call W as she goes up to see OM on her weekend without the kids and would have been drinking, so no way could she have come down.
I received a couple of text from w asking about if I wanted her to have the kids, I didn’t reply as I was rigged up in hospital but they sorted it out and W text me to say the kids were staying with her.
I received another 2 text the next day, but just replied “at home now” when I got home.
Whilst in hospital MIL found out and called me in the ward, which was really nice and a surprise.
October 17
Hospital made me think a bit, so after W’s last text I didn’t reply until the evening, and basically said that I knew about OM months ago and I know what I want, and that I didn’t think she had a conscience, or how she slept at night (I know, I know……..wanted to get it out there, hospital really made me think)
Couple of text back from W
October 18
This mornings text started by W at 6.23!
W - Well I slept well last nite as I have a clear conscience
M - Why u up so early then LOL
W - LMAO u are continually thinking about me then u need to get a life
Heard of some of W status today, like had a great weekend, you know who u r, and similar. WTH, the kids can see it all, what must they think when their mum is posting stuff like this, and its not about their dad, no wonder, but she is too fogged to see what she is doing to her relationship with the kids.
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
