I just went onto that forum - pretty hardcore and almost the opposite of what folks here recommend.

I will read the book - it's on my list, I certainly avoid confrontation OR react immediately without thinking of the consequences.

M47
W45
D10 (Has CP)
D7
M12 T14
ILYBINILWY 5/1/11
Asked for seperation 5/10/11
Seriously DBing 7/1/11
W admitted to 2 EA's on 11/3/11.
Evidence of PA 11/5/11 - Definite evidence of PA 11/20/11
D - Final 7/11/12