Do you know why your W is fine with the message? It makes it sound like you are the problem. Do you really believe all that BS that you mentioned? Do you really want to live somewhere else or is this your W's decision?
"She also said that I should stay an extra day before leaving so that it won't be so hard on the boys."
How "generous" of her.
"Now if you have been following my thread you'll recall that last week W was adamant that when we tell the boys that we should not give them any false hope."
You notice she throws around the word "we" alot. If you don't believe it, then don't say it. SHE doesn't want to give them hope and mark my words, there is no such thing as "false" hope. Either you have it or you don't. Typical WAS thinking.
"Anyway, I thought her hugging me was a sign (small as it may be) of some softening of her heart. Time will tell I suppose."
Nope. She's doing it to soothe herself. Not you. If her heart was "softening" she would have told you not to move out. I can guarantee you that if you told her that you didn't want to leave she would have gone ballistic.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
