J9, There is a lot of wisdom in what LIS has posted. Take it to heart.
Down the road after the legitimate relationship problems have been resolved for a long time your relationship might be strong enough to broach this. Hopefully by that time you won’t need to.
Is getting her to admit to a PA you really don’t have direct evidence for your ego talking?
Is your first priority to reconcile and make the relationship stronger? How does getting her to admit to a PA fit in the path for that goal?
When she feels safe enough to speak honestly about what really happened, not what you fear has happened will you be ready to hear it?
LIS, I am happy to see your posts.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
